Christie Anderson|
Narcissistic Abuse Recovery Coach
Client Testimonials
*Names and abbreviations have been changed for privacy
"I grew up in a toxic environment and always knew I didn't want to replay those patterns with my partners. But I didn't know how to avoid it.
I have been in therapy for years to address the trauma and it's been helpful in healing from the flashbacks and learning skills.
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But I was still cycling through awful relationships and feeling like they were my fault.
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Working with Christie helped me to recognize patterns in my thinking, and stop sabotaging potentially good things because I was afraid.
I AM SO WORTHY of the life I want, and I know now that my past does not define me."
- *Miranda, GA
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""Christie has been invaluable helping me learn from my unhealthy relationship(s).
I kept finding partners who treated me badly, because that's how I treated myself.
She *GETS* it,
and is so patient and knowledgeable; I have really been able to move past the point where I blamed myself and I finally feel hopeful about my future.
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-*Gail, NJ
"I left my marriage feeling like I won the lottery. I even celebrated my divorce-aversary.
But even though I was "out", I wasn't happy. I lived with the fear that I had failed my kids. My ex had convinced me that I was a terrible mother, could never find a better partner, and made me question every decision I made. I lived in a constant state of anxiety.
I started working with Christie and went through her Reclaiming You course and coaching program.
It helped me learn so much about myself.
I felt like I really understood not only how narcissists work, but also so much about myself. I have been able to really work on my own healing, setting boundaries with people in my life, and feel SO much stronger!
I can't recommend her program enough!
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-*Ann Marie, NY
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"I left an abusive marriage ten years ago. It was never physical, and I struggled with understanding that it was really abuse, even when my emotional wounds always felt so much more raw than any physical could.
I made a career for myself, and I am skilled at what I do. I could never understand why, despite my awards and nominations, I never felt I deserved to be in the same room with my colleagues.
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It's true that you internalize what you hear, and I heard that I was stupid, undesirable and unsuccessful. And that's how I believed. When I came to Christie, it's because even with my professional strength, my personal side needed to believe I was worthy.
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I re-learned how to love myself.
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I knew that it was affecting my children, and that no one was going to build me up better than I could do it myself. And I am so grateful and thankful for her patience and understanding that brought me lightyears from where I was."
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-*Nicole, NJ
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